1 00:00:00,380 --> 00:00:01,950 - Hi, I'm GT Dave. 2 00:00:01,950 --> 00:00:05,650 I'm founder and CEO of GT's Living Foods. 3 00:00:05,650 --> 00:00:08,730 (hypnotic electronic music) 4 00:00:08,730 --> 00:00:11,300 Being a leader in the LGBTQ community 5 00:00:11,300 --> 00:00:12,940 has certainly been interesting 6 00:00:12,940 --> 00:00:15,580 because as being gay, you're definitely a minority 7 00:00:15,580 --> 00:00:18,590 and therefore you're not necessarily comfortable 8 00:00:18,590 --> 00:00:20,820 with sharing certain things about your lifestyle 9 00:00:20,820 --> 00:00:23,630 because you might be judged or even discriminated. 10 00:00:23,630 --> 00:00:27,500 So for the first 90% of my career, I actually wasn't out. 11 00:00:27,500 --> 00:00:28,950 It's not that I was hiding it, 12 00:00:28,950 --> 00:00:30,700 I just wasn't talking about it. 13 00:00:30,700 --> 00:00:31,960 But there were clearly people 14 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:33,150 that could read between the lines, 15 00:00:33,150 --> 00:00:35,470 so it was something that was kind of unspoken. 16 00:00:35,470 --> 00:00:36,710 But then about five years ago, 17 00:00:36,710 --> 00:00:40,590 I decided to just own it and celebrate who I am. 18 00:00:40,590 --> 00:00:41,480 Because in many ways, 19 00:00:41,480 --> 00:00:43,811 I think that by showing people who I am, 20 00:00:43,811 --> 00:00:46,682 I'm kind of exposing a different side of being gay 21 00:00:46,682 --> 00:00:49,480 and hopefully breaking down some of the stereotypes. 22 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:53,410 Growing up, I really didn't have an LGBTQ mentor really 23 00:00:53,410 --> 00:00:55,500 to look up to, and honestly that was fine 24 00:00:55,500 --> 00:00:59,590 because in many ways I didn't have a set path to follow. 25 00:00:59,590 --> 00:01:01,370 I was able to path my own way. 26 00:01:01,370 --> 00:01:02,203 And looking back, 27 00:01:02,203 --> 00:01:04,040 that's something that I'm very grateful for. 28 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:05,210 Now, I did have friends 29 00:01:05,210 --> 00:01:07,340 that would share with me their life stories, 30 00:01:07,340 --> 00:01:10,390 so I was able to kind of live vicariously through them 31 00:01:10,390 --> 00:01:12,590 and also listen to some of the life experiences 32 00:01:12,590 --> 00:01:14,453 that they went through, good and bad, 33 00:01:14,453 --> 00:01:16,620 and make sure that I could apply those lessons 34 00:01:16,620 --> 00:01:18,440 to my own life. 35 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,160 Now, growing up and being a professional now, 36 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,410 I'm excited to actually become a mentor to the LGBTQ youth 37 00:01:26,410 --> 00:01:27,470 because I think in many ways, 38 00:01:27,470 --> 00:01:30,330 there's so many different colors and shades of being gay 39 00:01:30,330 --> 00:01:33,480 and hopefully I can share with them one way of living. 40 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,270 The role of companies and brands today can use 41 00:01:36,270 --> 00:01:39,260 to invite and include the LGBTQ community, 42 00:01:39,260 --> 00:01:40,810 as well as advance them, 43 00:01:40,810 --> 00:01:42,300 so first of all, make sure that it's clear 44 00:01:42,300 --> 00:01:43,610 that there's not just one role 45 00:01:43,610 --> 00:01:45,480 that this community can exist in. 46 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,020 I think until recently, 47 00:01:47,020 --> 00:01:49,943 we've been very much exposed to the creative side 48 00:01:49,943 --> 00:01:52,170 of brands and companies, 49 00:01:52,170 --> 00:01:55,520 but there's also other roles that I think can excel in. 50 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:56,353 In addition to that, 51 00:01:56,353 --> 00:01:58,990 I think in the sales and marketing of any brand, 52 00:01:58,990 --> 00:02:00,810 it's important to make sure 53 00:02:00,810 --> 00:02:02,570 that you're showing an inclusive world. 54 00:02:02,570 --> 00:02:06,220 And that's not just limited to the LGTBQ community, 55 00:02:06,220 --> 00:02:08,649 it's also any and every minority. 56 00:02:08,649 --> 00:02:11,340 I think it's important that in those advertisements, 57 00:02:11,340 --> 00:02:13,340 in those photographs, in those videos, 58 00:02:13,340 --> 00:02:15,675 and in those ads, that you showcase a world 59 00:02:15,675 --> 00:02:17,750 that no matter who you are, 60 00:02:17,750 --> 00:02:20,000 you can look at that and say there's a place for me. 61 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,203 For any LGBTQ business owner or entrepreneur, 62 00:02:23,203 --> 00:02:27,044 the advice that I would give is to embrace who you are 63 00:02:27,044 --> 00:02:29,099 and the gift that you've been blessed with. 64 00:02:29,099 --> 00:02:33,950 I believe that when you are a member of the LGBTQ community, 65 00:02:33,950 --> 00:02:36,629 that in many ways you possess this interesting balance 66 00:02:36,629 --> 00:02:38,880 of masculine and feminine. 67 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,560 And what that means is that you can be strong yet sensitive, 68 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,770 vulnerable yet resilient, 69 00:02:45,770 --> 00:02:48,306 and I think all these different kind of dichotomies 70 00:02:48,306 --> 00:02:50,640 that you possess, if you apply them, 71 00:02:50,640 --> 00:02:52,259 you can create some incredible art 72 00:02:52,259 --> 00:02:54,770 and bring some beautiful things into the world. 73 00:02:54,770 --> 00:02:56,410 So during the gift of time, 74 00:02:56,410 --> 00:02:59,580 I've been able to reconnect with my personal life, 75 00:02:59,580 --> 00:03:03,210 catch up on sleep, experience my house, 76 00:03:03,210 --> 00:03:05,280 which I'm embarrassed to say 77 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,189 I don't really experience that often during normal times, 78 00:03:08,189 --> 00:03:11,200 and it's a really great way to just kind of meditate 79 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,380 and reflect and make sure that who you are today 80 00:03:13,380 --> 00:03:14,980 is somebody that you want to be.