1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,850 (soft music) 2 00:00:00,850 --> 00:00:02,900 - [Instructor] You might wanna write this down. 3 00:00:02,900 --> 00:00:05,540 How to manage up when you have a bad boss? 4 00:00:05,540 --> 00:00:08,360 Number one, identify their triggers and preemptively 5 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:09,530 prepare for them. 6 00:00:09,530 --> 00:00:11,880 A difficult boss may give you vague instructions 7 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,520 yet expects you to know exactly what they want. 8 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,797 In that case ask them something like, "I know it bothers you 9 00:00:17,797 --> 00:00:20,367 "when a report doesn't analyze things in details. 10 00:00:20,367 --> 00:00:22,317 "Can I run a few questions by you to make sure 11 00:00:22,317 --> 00:00:24,860 "that I'm focusing on the right things?" 12 00:00:24,860 --> 00:00:27,490 Number two, show your appreciation while putting 13 00:00:27,490 --> 00:00:29,660 the ball back in their court. 14 00:00:29,660 --> 00:00:31,290 Your boss might expect you to bite off 15 00:00:31,290 --> 00:00:32,360 more than you can chew. 16 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:33,890 So tell them that you are grateful 17 00:00:33,890 --> 00:00:35,260 for their trust and confidence. 18 00:00:35,260 --> 00:00:37,320 Then gently remind them that you were planning 19 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,910 to focus on another project as discussed. 20 00:00:39,910 --> 00:00:42,260 In order to deliver on that project, you need 21 00:00:42,260 --> 00:00:43,540 to focus on that. 22 00:00:43,540 --> 00:00:46,430 This forces them to think about what's really important. 23 00:00:46,430 --> 00:00:48,600 Number three, know your limits. 24 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,850 There are certain bosses that are just difficult 25 00:00:50,850 --> 00:00:54,030 to be around and you need to know what point is enough. 26 00:00:54,030 --> 00:00:55,490 If you feel like you've tried your best 27 00:00:55,490 --> 00:00:58,330 but working with them is affecting your mental health 28 00:00:58,330 --> 00:01:00,860 it's time to think about other opportunities. 29 00:01:00,860 --> 00:01:03,493 Never compromise your mental health for a job. 30 00:01:04,810 --> 00:01:08,029 Find and subscribe to the podcast in the links below. 31 00:01:08,029 --> 00:01:10,446 (soft music)